for quite awhile my TV in the bedroom would go on when  i came home for lunch   but when i wasn't here on weekends and my boyfriend was here it would not go   on.  i keep it unplugged now.  i really believe it was my father.  when i was   in my apartment in the corner of one room i saw twinkling lights it never   bothered me.   my ex mother-in law past away about 6 months ago and about 2   months ago I like felt she was here and she told me was fine but wishes she   was here.  Once I told my ex-husband that she said she was fine and he would   smell her perfume I never felt her here again.  I still feel my father but I   have not had anything unusual happen lately except sometimes I feel like   someone is touching me.