My husband and I live in Porter Indiana. We have been living with spirits since 1978.  A lot of bizarre things have happened to us, and I guess we are looking for some answers.  Who are they, and what do they want.  They are mostly just pests, but have given us a good scare every now and then.  We especially notice them at night, they sometimes keep us awake, or we can hear footsteps in the house, doors opening and closing, we see shadows, and our grown children have heard conversations.  Right now I think there are 3 of them.  On occasion my son and I have heard wings flapping in our bedrooms the
one time this has happened to me, I saw a black object resembling a large bird flying across my bedroom.  This was several years ago, but recently my 21 year old son said he was awaken by wings flapping, and so terrified he felt paralyzed.  We all have seen shadows walking through the yard up to the porch, thinking it was someone coming to the door.  This all started in 78 right after our first child, Julie was born.  We lived in Miller at the time and we have lived in 6 different homes since then.  We don't know what to think.  Is it spirits of relatives, or people who have lived in these houses.  Why are they with us?  My husband says he has woke up in the middle of the night with a haze hovering over him.

Ellen