Allen County

My experience happened in 1993 in Allen County Indiana. We lived in a small town at the time, in a very old house. The master bedroom was right off of the living room, and with the door open, I could lay in bed and stare straight out into the living room. One night, very late, I just woke up for some reason, I wasn't startled or anything, I just woke up. As I layed there I looked out into our living room and there was a man standing there, with one hand on the back of my rocking chair. He looked almost sad as he stared out our front picture at the funeral home building just across the street. He was dressed in a high collar white shirt with a black string tie, a long black coat and black pants. A very nice outfit in about 1900! His hair was rather long, touching his shoulders, and it was silver/white. He had a mustache that was just a bit darker. It was as if I startled HIM! He almost jumped when he realized I was staring at him. His eyes were very dark, but very kind and sad. At that point, he just dematerialized in front of me. I never saw him again. I wonder if he's still in our old house (we've since moved), and I wonder who was at the funeral home that he was missing so.
Anon